Go is a game that is fundamentally too complex for humans to solve. We've known this since way back before AlphaGo. Since humans were not the perfect Go players, we didn't use them to teach a model- we wanted the model to be able to beat humans.
I dont see language being comparable. the "perfect" LLM imitates humans perfectly, presumably to the point where you can't tell the difference between LLM generated text, and human generated text. Maybe it's just as flexible as the human mind is too, and can context switch quickly, and can quickly swap between formalities, tones, and slangs. But the concept of "beating" a human doesn't really make much sense.
AlphaGo and Stockfish can push forward our understandings of their respective games, but an LLM cant push forwards our boundary of language. this is because it's fundamentally a copy-cat model. This makes RLHF make much more sense in the LLM realm than the Go realm.