At the same time, if you've not spotted by now that EBS (elastic block storage, which powers RDS) is not reliable and not to be trusted, then you have to look at yourself too.
EBS is by far the worst product AWS offer, you simply should not use it without a very good reason, and if you do need to use it, you have to assume any given drive image will disappear at any moment - as it did here.
Beyond that, any time you're running a database, no matter who the provider is, if you're not doing backups every day or hour, then you're not doing things right.