- No one having any preconception of how you're /supposed to/ do things or whether you'd even be the type of person to know, so you just kinda figure it out yourself. You spend a lot of time on reading and learning skills. Version control? Wow, cool, what's git, let's try that! A new graphing library? Let's give that a shot, maybe it'll make things easier! You want XYZ? Let me go read about that for a day.
- No one having any idea what's even possible: being treated like a wizard for introducing the tiniest piece of automation or improvement that makes someone's day easier or doing something they never thought was possible. Lots of appreciation and excitement for showing and teaching people new things (... and I know this is somewhat selfish and ego driven, but who doesn't like being appreciated?)
- Similarly people having no idea how long those things should take which, tbh, can be a nightmare if you're not trusted and respected enough to be consulted but also great if people believe you when you say it's gonna take 3 months.
- Beyond the basics just being mostly kinda left alone to do your job however: no standups or tickets or the 30 other kinds of daily (micro)management that is probably necessary but ends up feeling tiresome and stifling at an individual level
- Not being part of software company "culture": no performance review driven development and promo packet madness, no weird rating and ranking systems, no OGPs or KPIs. No ladder. Your bosses think you did what was required of you, so then you're good, and if it's a good year you get a raise, and that's that. I do recognize that with a bad boss this can be a terrible and unfair spot to be in - but again, subjectively with a decent enough boss it felt like a lot less weight on my shoulders at the time.
- No hacker ninja pirate segway mini quadcopter you're the smartest people in the world and we're the best company to work for sort of b.s.
- Socializing with people who are good at and love to talk about stuff other than software
Reading over that, I'm thinking maybe I lucked out a lot and that wasn't most people's experience from that era. And there's some level of rose tinted glasses going on. And/or maybe my years in the rat race are starting to show :-)