I suspect the answers to all those questions are why the people running NASA decided to bring it down.
I could see the merit of this argument about a cookie-cutter telephony or Starlink satellite.
ISS is a unique achievement of humanity though. It's a true artifact of early space age - the cost to boost it to a stable orbit and mothball it for future generations seems tiny compared to the amount of human capital already invested in it.
However, if it's scrapped, will we start over with something else? I suspect it's more likely that we won't and some corporation will instead, which would be a bit of a loss.
That's the loss. I think it's also why the current spacecraft efforts don't have the degree of public resonance that prior ones have had. Whether or not that's a loss that matters to many is a different question, of course.