I recently read the book "The Naked Neanderthal" by the paleoanthropologist Ludovic Slimak, who suggests that this phenomenon, as well as the extinction of the Neanderthals in general, is due to the social domination, including military domination, of the Neanderthals by Homo sapiens, who were much better than Neanderthals at manufacturing weapons, for example. So Neanderthal women would mate with Homo sapiens men in Homo sapiens communities, either voluntarily or involuntarily, whereas Homo sapiens women would not mate with Neanderthal men in Neanderthal communities, either voluntarily, because they had a much lower social status, or involuntarily, because Neanderthals did not win wars with Homo sapiens.