When it comes to "nobody wants to spend enough money to do moderation and anti-abuse well", it makes me wonder: Whatever happened to early PGP-era ideas that we'd somehow establish new webs of distributed trust and distrust of online identities?
I guess we sorta kinda have a little of that in the form of social-media accounts that get "trusted" based on the number of followers and their followers' followers and bots all the way down, etc. Or PageRank and SEO exploitation.