And barely any big open source is written in .NET, the only one I can recall without googling is Ryujinx
At the end of the day, all the tools written in Go that are listed above are not exactly paragons of performance.
Ryujinx is probably one of the best showcases of the kind of task that is impossible to solve in Go effectively, and yet can be solved very well with .NET. Or you could look at Garnet which is a pure C# Redis implementation which beats vanilla Redis, KeyDB and Dragonfly.