I think your analysis is highly flawed.
>Microsoft makes more money when the broader community wants to use their products. Users are stakeholders.
>But if the broad community hates what they’re doing, they will stop doing it. They must, if they want to remain in business.
This mostly isn't true. MS customers are going to use Windows no matter what, unless MS somehow makes it so completely unusable they're forced to abandon it. So they can make whatever annoying changes they want, and their customers aren't going anywhere.
However, this isn't true of everything MS makes, so you have to be careful not to conflate Windows with anything else. If people hate Teams enough, they might be convinced to switch to Zoom or whatever. This just isn't the case with Windows. They're free to piss people off as much as they want here.
>But as I’m a paying customer, my opinion still matters - or at least, the opinion of their customers in aggregate.
No, it really doesn't. You aren't paying for a Windows subscription, you paid for a Windows license. You probably paid it when you bought your PC. Or if you're a big company, you probably have some sort of site license, because you made the decision to use MS products across your organization. And if you're BigCo, you probably don't have Solitaire installed on employee computers anyway. So MS making the solitaire game slow and shitty isn't going to change the amount of money they get from you: they already got your money when you bought your PC. Even worse, you probably didn't have much choice: there aren't a lot of no-OS computers unless you assembled yours from parts, and those that exist (or come with Linux pre-installed) usually cost more, because MS isn't making money from you so much, but from kickbacks from all the crapware that's pre-installed.
>...a forum like HN where microsoft engineers sometimes visit.
>it seems mighty strange of you to try and convince me that my opinions don’t matter and I should… what exactly?
What makes you think MS engineers have any sway at all over the user experience? That stuff is decided by upper management, product managers, etc. And they don't care about you; they only care about the company's profitability. Adding more crapware and ads into Windows makes it more profitable, so that's what makes sense for them to do. Making a bloat-free, high-performance OS without any annoying ads or other crap doesn't make them more money, because you and everyone else are going to keep using Windows (and buying new computers with it pre-installed) no matter what.
>it seems mighty strange of you to try and convince me that my opinions don’t matter and I should… what exactly? Be quiet and take it instead?
Basically yes: you're wasting your keystrokes complaining about Windows enshittification, because your opinion really doesn't matter. It's not like MacOS, where someone has to actively want to use a Mac to go buy one, or Linux where you not only have to actively be willing to buck the trend, but also choose which of dozens of distros you want to use. With Windows, it's just the default choice for 90% of users, and they're not going to switch to something else, which MS has found out over the course of decades now.
>Provide no feedback and quietly migrate to another equally imperfect ecosystem?
Other ecosystems are far more likely to take your complaints seriously and to worry about your user experience.