Often, but not always, big RAM requirements like that also involve big CPU or disk requirements that would be impractical in a laptop form factor.
I am not saying you will have it in an ultrabook form factor, but I had 32gb of ram in sandy bridge laptop (intel core i7 2700 ?) and 64 not that much later. That was like 10+ years ago. Those were desktop replacement and thicker style laptops, but not exactly unreasonable equipment.
Throw in almost always using a windoze vm for windoze things for another 8gb, at times other vm's using 4-8gb doing various things for testing, libreoffice with 20 complex spreadsheets, steam games, normal use really, all adds up to a lot of at minimum reserved memory far exceeding physical, at times things ballooning within that, and thus at times getting cranky to still oom occasionally.
I rather wonder who actually uses boxes with only 8gb of ram some still ship with.
Everyone else? :) Joking aside, the majority of people buy the MacBook Air, mostly with the minimum spec. Apple is expensive.
If I didn't have to run docker or didn't store media locally, I could very easily use one.
Windows 10/11 with 8GB of ram is comfortable, using just Chrome... 4GB and it's in swap.
2GB would be unusable despite Microsoft's minimums, you will be swapping constantly.
I am not saying everyone needs that much, just that the bar for what warrants a dedicated server rack keeps going up and 128gb in a thick laptop seems practical.
https://www.tomshardware.com/laptops/lenovo-thinkpad-p1-gen-...
There’s a tonne of benefits to that approach, cooling, battery life and performance among them- and the ability to run tasks while your laptop is asleep.
I understand not wanting to own multiple devices, or cope with the power draw of an always on machine- but if you truly need such resources you will end up better off (even in the short term) with a dual system setup.
For ssh there’s mosh.
I’d buy “having to transfer files” more than latency, realistically.
Thanks for commenting though.