On embodiment - yes, LLMs do not have corporeal experience. But it's not obvious that this means that they cannot, a priori, have an "internal" concept of reality, or that it's impossible to gain such an understanding from text. The argument feels circular: LLMs are similar to a fake "video game" world because they aren't real people - therefore, it's wrong to think that they could be real people? And the other half of the argument is that because LLMs can only see text, they're missing out on the wider world of non-textual communication; but then, does that mean that human writing is not "real" language? This argument feels especially weak in the face of multi-modal models that are in fact able to "see" and "hear".
The other flavor of argument here is that LLM behavior is empirically non-human - e.g., the argument about not asking for clarification. But that only means that they aren't currently matching humans, not that they couldn't.
Basically all of these arguments feel like they fall down to the strongest counterargument I see proposed by LLM-believers, which is that sufficiently advanced mimicry is not only indistinguishable from the real thing, but at the limit in fact is the real thing. If we say that it's impossible to have true language skills without implicitly having a representation of self and environment, and then we see an entity with what appears to be true language skills, we should conclude that that entity must contain within it a representation of self and environment. That argument doesn't rely on any assumptions about the mechanism of representation other than a reliance on physicalism. Looking at it from the other direction, if you assume that all that it means to "be human" is encapsulated in the entropy of a human body, then that concept is necessarily describable with finite entropy. Therefore, by extension, there must be some number of parameters and some model architecture that completely encode that entropy. Questions like whether LLMs are the perfect architecture or whether the number of parameters required is a number that can be practically stored on human-manufacturable media are engineering questions, not philosophical ones: finite problems admit finite solutions, full stop.
Again, that conclusion feels wrong to me... but if I'm being honest with myself, I can't point to why, other than to point at some form of dualism or spirituality as the escape hatch.