- You can have the UI/UX affordances that you prefer, but you resent the fact that they’re not the default affordances (and so have to affirmatively set them to match your preferences)?

- You can have the UI/UX affordances that you prefer, but you resent the fact that other people have other preferences (and wish your preferred defaults to be the only options for those affordances)?

- Something else that’s less clearly inferred?