You can still brake - you just need (automatic) agreement of all trains behind you to do so.
You aren't allowed to brake 'as much as possible' anymore - instead the best you can achieve is 'the best the worst of the trains behind me can achieve'.
You aren't allowed to brake 'as much as possible' anymore - instead the best you can achieve is 'the best the worst of the trains behind me can achieve'.
We're also fine with the risk of a derailment onto a neighbouring track with traffic going the opposite direction. We could have tech which detects that, but we do not.
The thing you are missing is compartmentalization. A modern high-speed train can hold around 1,000 people. This is the maximum number of people that could die in an accident (ignoring trains on other tracks or people next to the tracks). What you are proposing is essentially a train of infinite length, with virtual (software) coupling between groups of carriages. But then there is no limit to the maximum number of deaths in an accident. If you have 50 high-speed trains all traveling in this virtually coupled manner, a single accident may cause 50,000 casualties. People would not accept this, and no sane policy maker would allow it.
Note that if you consider derailments into neighboring tracks, you still have an upper limit of 2 times maximum train capacity, in our example 2,000.
Take this incident for example https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-surrey-68466494
Imagine that then resulted in "the following train then slammed into the derailed train, having been unable to stop in time"
A total of 3 trains were involved.
Pretty decent track record if that's the most recent example!
Upping the ante: how much worse would that have been if there were trains following closer than braking distance in both directions.
Special note that the train derailed so severely in this incident after colliding with a train stopped in front of it.
I'm even less of a fan of OP's "braking distance shmaking distance" proposal with this example of why it's a bad idea!
people did not seeing this and the system was modified to not do it