As a father of an about to be 16 year old, this is a very welcome and potentially life saving feature. I was already considering a Tesla for my next vehicle, but this makes it all the more appealing.
Maybe a simpler solution is to just send notifications when the car exceeds certain limits?
The greater risk comes from the car spinning out of control from a standstill because of enthusiastic acceleration.
As for safety, it’s not often we need to outrun a pyroclastic cloud/tornado/airplane crashing into your path.
"We love an external party able to control the speed of our vehicle!"
2. This has been a feature of slower-accelerating premium vehicles, primarily for valet use, for decades.