Deadlocks are an application issue. If you built your application the same way with Postgres you would have the same problem. Automatic retries of failed transactions with specific error codes are a driver feature you can tune or turn off if you'd like. The same is true for some Postgres drivers.
If you're seeing frequent deadlocks, your transactions are too large. If you model your data differently, deadlocks can be eliminated completely (and this advice applies regardless of the database you're using). I would recommend you engage a third party to review your data access patterns before you migrate and experience the same issues with Postgres.