> great, good for you and those people. but clearly most people don't.
If throwawaysleep had said, "Some people seem to like exercise, but I've tried all kinds of things and never found anything that wasn't a misery", I probably wouldn't have replied. But rather, they said, "Exercise is a misery" -- no exceptions or qualifications. They have acknowledged the importance of exercise, and seemed to indicate that they would be willing to do it for their own health if it were just boring or mildly annoying; but they believe exercise is always unpleasant. They seem to believe that everyone who does exercise regularly does so by just powering through the misery; but that this is realistically not an option for them.
So there's something they don't know, something they need to know -- exercise doesn't always suck. Lots of people exercise without having to "power through" any misery, because they've found routines they actually enjoy. And so, maybe there's a routine that they will enjoy as well. You're not going to look for something unless you know that it might exist.
> plus you cannot out-exercise a poor diet. doesn't matter how hard you go in the gym or on a hike if you slam donuts and pepsi all day.
I'm not sure where the donuts and pepsi are coming from. I don't know what happens if you take Ozempic while only eating donuts and pepsi; it's possible you could stay thin, but you definitely won't be healthy.
But since you raised it: Slim != healthy, and healthy eating !=> slim. It's possible to gain weight eating healthy most days and only eating really unhealthy once a month. And it's possible to have healthy muscles / cardiovascular system and still be overweight, or to have poor cardio and be slim. I'm pretty sure it's healthier to be overweight and cycle 20 minutes every day than to be slim and a couch potato.
If throwawaysleep is slamming donuts and pepsi all day, they should stop that for their health and well-being. But although it might slow the rate at which they gain weight, it probably won't make them slim.
Similarly, if they're overweight, while a normal, sustainable exercise routine will probably slow the rate at which they gain weight, or help them lose a bit, it probably will never make them slim. But they will be a lot healthier nonetheless.