This is because everyone is training with synchronous sgd. all gpus need to synchronize on each gradient step so tail latency will kill you.
Although even for async training generally I see dataset just sharded and if worker goes down then shard of data may be loss/skipped not some kind of smarter dynamic file assignment factoring when workers go down. Even basic things like job fails continue from last checkpoint with same dataset state for large epoch is messy when major libraries like tensorflow lack a good dataset checkpointing mechanism.