"It's not your money anymore."
I’m not sure where that’s coming from.
Also plenty of companies out there have control past the A.
And in the best case it’s just one series A taking ~15%, thus founders still have 85%
Equity ownership and voting control are also different things. After the B you commonly have 2 investors and an independent director on the board, alongside 1-2 founders.
What a horrible fate. They only got five years of salary plus 200k extra. I'll include them in my prayers (just kidding, I don't pray).
Also realize you were probably forced to take a pay cut and have a below average salary due to cost-cutting measures from the board. We'll ignore the non-financial problems, like tons of stress, complaining employees demanding more equity because you couldn't give them raises...
No, it's not a good situation.