1) Insurance is structured to be affordable to everyone by banning discrimination. Young, healthy people subsidize old, sick people. That's okay.
2) No one is banning free speech. People are banning specific types of decision-making based on free speech.
3) Speech here isn't free. See HIPAA. It's okay -- and even important -- to protect privacy. See also FERPA, RFPA, etc.
I don't feel bad having my interest rates a little bit higher right now, in return for not having them go up if I have a horrific medical expense later. I don't think that should be factored.
This is not a debt people choose.