The estimates relating to the paradox all come from what we've understood to be around us - galaxies, stars, planets, etc.
(IANA anything of any consequence to this discussion - just an eager reader!)
And of course, we have no reasonable basis for estimating any of those numbers. We have a sample size of one universe and we don't even know the rate of occurrence of life in that one. Still, it can be fun to speculate.
So our children universes would inherently be younger than us, and that counts heavily against intelligent life, much less superior life the likes of which would have to come back through for us to meet. At least any time soon.
Consider other universes could be so different that they may not support life, at least not as we know it.