Your Phone, Minus the Distractions
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It's better to think about what we did twenty or thirty years ago. Ad companies of course prefer their "product" not to think about this. It's quite simple (but difficult to execute): just don't pick up your phone this often. Understand that ad companies are actively fighting you because they want you as a "product" sheep consuming ads.
Some tools, tricks and stratagems are helpful:
- Configure notifications not to vibrate or make a sound
- Airplane mode for some time-out, for example when hiking
- Leave the phone home and learn to embrace the helplessness
- Learn not to think too much about it and live in the now
- If you return home, don't open your phone immediately but do something else
- Leave the phone in a different room when sleeping
- Understand if you say you cannot that these are psychological tricks by ad companies
- Understand that it is an addiction and accept if you binge
- Don't try to find perfect solutions
- Everybody is different, so try to find your own tricks, tools and stratagems, but stick to simple things
- Adapt when something changes like unwanted features added to an app
- Generally smile, relax, understand, let it go and enjoy life
webapps versions are often less practical on purpose (to make you switch to the app) and that's a good thing : it makes the experience less rewarding and we end up less hooked.
Example : Messenger was removed from the web mobile version of FB. At first it made me angry. In the end, I use FB less :)
But we can't expect help from the ad companies.
So what can we do? One wrote in this thread that they use parental control against themselves and put the code for the parental control in an inconvenient place to get to. Everyone is different. It is difficult but not impossible.
So in messaging apps like Whatsapp I silence all notifications to groups (but not 1 on 1), and for email I read the contents of those addressed to me personally, but for dept/company wide email usually just the subject line.
In my case, biggest limit is the 2FA for work stuff.
Still want to have a "no phones in bedroom" rule when moving. Clear problem with it in the same room and much worse when it's handy from the bed itself.
And that's despite no notifications for almost anything (exceptions include banking), even just web browsing alone is an issue.
That seems like a very hypothetical situation and no reason to dismiss the product. I have tried (and apply) most if not all of your "tricks" and I still could see this as helpful. Whenever I have to apply willpower to something, it's like I have a little less of it for other things (similar to the concept of decision fatigue). If this thing could remove the choice in just a few situations, that would be positive.
https://www.theverge.com/2023/11/7/23950795/meta-whatsapp-st...
Which "essential apps" are being controlled by Meta?
Works extremely well.
"Adapt" as in "just bend over and take it?
My strategy these days is very simple.
* All notifications are on silent all the time except for a tiny class of things - e.g. actual phone calls, and delivery apps.
* When I'm at home the phone sits on my toilet. When I'm at the office it sits in my bag. At night it's turned off and charging.
That's really it. <2 hours of phone time per day with no downsides. I bring it out of the toilet temporarily if I'm eating a meal alone, sometimes.
Physical separation from the device has been the key for me, whenever possible, it's simply not on my person, so my attention rarely goes to it.
I like the symbolism of this shitty device only having access to my attention when I'm taking a dump.
I never used Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, Tik Tok or Snapchat.
Nor Uber, headspace or Audible.
It’s the Henry David Thoreau of phones. I “own” apps dating back to 2010, and one of the first, Trunk Notes, works fine. I like wikis.
My partner has the opposite need - they want to be able to use the phone out and about but get stuck doom scrolling at home and need all the screen time things on in the evening
You can of course 'hack' this setup by just switching off the setting or rewarding yourself another 10 minutes etc. but then you can do this with anything...
You might think you need them to stay in touch with some people but you don’t
What is actually bad is ads. If you turn off ads, then “distraction” may be seen just as “you made it as a biological entity, you have decent food, home, internet with no ads and lots of time”. I’m neither poor, lone, sad, nor successful, popular or happy by local standards, so I think there’s no personal bias in evaluating this lifestyle. Life is really slow and boring, everything takes hours and unwanted interaction or lots of money, and the internet and apps are nice replacement. You just have to reflect on what you consume and manage your feeds, groups and interests. Same applies to life, so it’s not that different. But for some reason life often gets highlighted as something natural (go get it) and the internet as something making you a sheep. Well, depending on where you live, streets and places can also try to turn you into cattle.
Managing your internet life is doable. Don’t hesitate to dislike good content you don’t want. Clean/clear your history when stuck, or redo accounts. Don’t use only a couple of platforms, always research. Take breaks from platforms, not from the internet.
So my list is:
- remove ads by any means
- don’t tolerate ads
- manage your feeds
- reflect on your state through hours, days and weeks of activity
- learn basic eyes-shoulders-torso gymnastics and use these regularly
That’s probably it. You may think it’s a bad advice, but it is not an advice. It’s important to learn about yourself and accept what you are, not what some stereotype tells you should be. If you are a lifer, go with it and skip this.
Even after buying this, they won't have that will power to not get it un bricked continuously.
Great device for kids though. Put the brick in unreachable place and you're golden.
It's a gimmick, but good gimmick.
Sure, you are probably still addicted and will go outside way too much to smoke, but that’s also probably a great incremental tool to work on getting rid of your addiction.
- I don't have a phone number in my phone. Just internet, so no distracting calls only messages
- I heavily use Nothing Phones options to categorize notifications. Which is brilliant and should be part of android stock.
- Possibly relevant notifications are shown on my Garmin watch. So in 95% or all cases my phone rings I know I don't have to look at it now
Not having any social media definitely helps as well
If you already have the willpower to completely avoid social media, you are not the target audience :)
By removing triggers I could adapt back to a more healthy relationship with my smartphone.
You can use social media and still don't get that hype / rush or FOMO.
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"What happens if I lose my Brick? -
We know that accidents happen (you might lose your Brick or forget to leave an important app unblocked before leaving the house), so you get a handful of Emergency Unbricks that will automatically unblock everything. Once these are gone, the only way to unbrick without the device will be deleting the app - meaning all of your data (customized settings and usage history) will be permanently deleted. Note, though, that if Strict Mode is enabled you will not be able to delete the app when Bricked.
We'd love to hear your thoughts / suggestions on what would be a good solution for lost Bricks and Emergency Unbricking - drop a comment in our feedback forum."
I hope they find a less invasive way of unbricking without removing the device's effectiveness.
It can do everything I need, but it's uncomfortable to use. The screen is tiny, it's a pain to type, etc. But if I really need to reply to an email it's entirely possible.
Which is exactly what I wanted.
I am using this app since nearly 3 years and I am not missing the colourfull clown-puke-esc like app logos one second.
Still, I'm curious what others think of the possibilities for kids.
I like the clever gimmick of the separate physical component, but existing blockers already allow switching via charger connect, I doubt it's more robust than those. And if you're on the move it's just an additional thing to carry. Nice idea in the home or office though.
So, a UX/design win maybe.
Lots of cheap software only alternatives though that should be good enough for most.
I wanted to build an app to turn on tethering automatically and you can't even change settings at all using Swift and the SDK.
I use an OnePlus 9 during my work day that only has Slack, email and other basic tools to get my job done. Once im done for the day I pick up my original phone.
Only thing that sucks is SMS / Phone calls do not transfer.
Not carried one in three years and I am so much more focused and happy.
(Of course, you could always just delete your accounts on Twitter, FB, IG, etc. That pretty much worked for me to make my phone sufficiently utilitarian)
A physical device you have to walk to sounds like an alternative for people with no girlfriends.
If you need them go to a pc and browse them there. I can assure you you’re not missing out even if you check only once a week
If someone had the willpower to ignore distractions already, they would do so with or without gadgets like this one. And ultimately if they crave those distractions again they're just going to stop using this tool after those 15 minutes or whatever time.
Similar tools have existed for a long time, and while sure there's an opportunity to capture a small market in the same way diet pills sell to a few people, it's nothing novel or even effective at solving the real problem.
This is just yet another gimmick that tries to tackle the symptoms of the underlying issue that we actually like the distractions and need those dopamine hits.