This seems to be more about how to spend less while shopping, rather than psychological tricks or generosity.
Everything in the article (after the bit about utility vs signalling) assumes the thing you're buying is primarily meant to increase social capital (as a gift or a display piece [which may still have utility]) and then explains how to get the most for your money in that case specifically.
> The narrative that you just told me [about utility shopping] is “I am a very analytical person who only has book smarts and no emotions”. And that narrative is boring!
The piece just reminds me of stuff I would have said as a teenager, before I had life experience and opinions about how I wanted to live.