jabber/xmpp is open standard and supports e2e encryption and can be self-hosted, has mobile clients
XMPP FTW.
That page in particular is a pile of FUD; it keeps banging on about "impressive collection of private data being sent to Matrix central servers, even when you use your own instance" which is simply categorically untrue; it looks like they misread the privacy policy of the Matrix.org server at https://github.com/element-hq/policies/blob/master/docs/matr... and somehow assumed it applied to everyone's server instances. It doesn't, any more than https://www.w3.org/policies/privacy applies to a given random webserver on the internet :|
[1]: But like I said in another thread, who knows if they would directly complain to me.