I could make the same argument for not using DRY. The DRY-ed code is hard to change, programmers feel honour-bound to keep using it and tweaking it by adding a variety of parameters to more and more cases, and at the end becomes impossible to understand or update, slowing down development.

Now, what probably should've been 3 abstractions is one incredibly convoluted "abstraction" that makes no sense, and its 3x harder than 3 individual abstractions to deduplicate and inline. It further pulls and invites complexity, as its current size is implicit invitation to include additional cases and places.

Furthermore, while without DRY fixing bugs may've been tedious, now with DRY it may be almost impossible due to high risk of breaking a lot of things that depend on that code. (You might be lucky enough to be able to and have written extensive tests with 100% edge case coverage for it - if that's the case then you've postponed the moment of pain somewhat)

Both can be true. It depends on the context whether benefits exceed costs. Decisions should be made based on a specific context and with thinking applied, not generic rules.