It works with my iPhone 15 Pro.
I do not see any visible light emitting from the remote. This is in a pitch dark room.
Edit: proof, taken in a semi-lit room for clarity: https://imgur.com/a/63FbXjQ
Edit 2: Tested on iPhone 15 Pro selfie camera. It detects IR at the same intensity.
Edit 3: Same as above with a Pixel 8.
Edit 4: I now have my office involved, this is fun. Same with a Samsung S24.
Final Edit: OK, I just went through about 20 colleague's phones, which are various mixes of iPhone and Android, new and old. Testing the front and back camera, every camera on every phone saw the IR light.
If a smartphone camera does not see IR light, this appears to be the exception, not the rule. OK, back to work!
These are all US devices, in case that matters. We don't seem to have an agency that regulates light emissions from cell phones.