> I would not assume that a woman would trust a dude telling her that "he's on the pill". I can't see a woman giving up control of pregnancies to a man she only just meet.
Well, neither i would trust the woman i just met telling me that 'she is on the pill'. It is better if both sides have independent way to avoid unwanted parenthood.
> Then there's also the lack of protection against STDs, which would still make a condom the preferred solution.
Which is unreliable as the only birth control. People depending on condom often rush for levonorgestrel after condom failure. So IMHO a preferred solution is both sides on pills and condom just for STD protection.