I've spent a lot of time thinking about how to write less of this code, and I think what I want is something similar to Postgrest, but with a mechanism for some sort of hook, where I can write some code to manipulate the request/data in a type-safe way.
The closest I've seen to this was early in my career - one of my first jobs was working at a WebObjects consultancy. Because WebObjects provided the full stack from HTML templating engine to ORM - and by that time also community-driven frontend libraries - you had to write very little of this type of code.
I suspect also that some of the resistance to the Postgrest-style approach in enterprise environments comes from tighter controls around data, and requirements/expectations for stricter change control around databases. Buggy code can always be rolled back, but a botched database change could be a much bigger problem. (Of course, the fact that buggy code could corrupt or delete data almost as easily is ignored in this calculation). I still remember weeks of meetings at one employer trying to get a column added with the ultimate answer being 'no'.