I'd just love a protocol that has a built in mechanism for realizing the other side of the pipe disconnected for any reason.
Attempts to add connection monitoring usually make things worse --- if you need to reroute a cable, and one or both ends of the cable will detect a cable disconnection and close user sockets, that's not great, now you do a quick change with a small period of data loss but otherwise minor interruption; all of the established connections will be dropped.
Parent said disconnected pipe, not network. It's sufficiently well-definable there.
When all you have to go on is "I stopped getting packets" the best you can do is give up after a bit. TCP keepsalives do kinda suck and are full of interesting choices that don't seem to have passed the test of time. But they are there and if you control both sides of the connection you can be sure they work.
As for the analogy, uh, this ain't water. Monitor the line voltage or the fiber brightness or something, it'll tell you very quickly if the other endpoint is disconnected. It's up to the physical layer to provide a mechanism to detect disconnection, but it's not somehow impossible or rocket science...
However, that only applies to the two ends of that cable, not between you and the datacentre on the other side of the world.
Come on now...
And it is easy to monitor, it is just an application concern not a L3-L4 one.
You can get the guarantees you want with a circuit switched network but there's a lot of trade-offs namely bandwidth and self-healing.
It's possible to do better than TCP these days, bandwidth is much much less constrained than it was when TCP was designed, but it's still a hard problem to do detection of pipe disconnected for any reason other than timeouts (which we already have).
It's very useful to do this in intra-datacenter protocols.
By default, completely idle TCP connections will stay alive indefinitely from the perspective of both peers even if their physical connection is severed.
Implementors MAY include "keep-alives" in their TCP
implementations, although this practice is not universally
accepted. If keep-alives are included, the application MUST
be able to turn them on or off for each TCP connection, and
they MUST default to off.
Keep-alive packets MUST only be sent when no data or
acknowledgement packets have been received for the
connection within an interval. This interval MUST be
configurable and MUST default to no less than two hours.
If the network connection is lost due to external circumstances (say your modem crashes) then how would that information propagate from the point of failure to the remote end on an idle connection? Either you actively probe (keepalives) and risk false positives or you wait until you hear again from the other side, risking false negatives.
Observe the line voltage? If it gets cut then you have a problem...
> Either you actively probe (keepalives) and risk false positives
What false positives? Are you thinking there's an adversary on the other side?
Most network links absolutely will detect that the link has gone away; the little LED will turn off and the OS will be informed on both ends of that link.
But one of the link ends is a router, and these are (except for NAT) stateless. The router does not know what TCP connections are currently running through it, so it cannot notify them - until a packet for that link arrives, at which point it can send back an ICMP packet.
A TCP link with no traffic on it does not exist on the intermediate routers.
(Direct contrast to the old telecom ATM protocol, which was circuit switched and required "reservation" of a full set of end-to-end links).
So, except for the links on either of end going down (one end really, if the other is on a “data center” the TCP connection is likely terminated in a “server” with redundant networking) you wouldn't want to have a connection terminated just because a link died.
That's explicitly against the goal of a packed switched network.
BFD, it’s used for millisecond failure detection and typically combined with BGP sessions (tcp based) to ensure seamless failover without packet drops.