I just had to write a Python program that handled multiple async events - from a serial line, and with a tkinter GUI. The only way to make it 'truly' async was to handle the runloops myself, and add a separate queue, onto which I push coroutines, for processing. UI events and Serial I/O events (involving passing of messages to update states on both sides) all have to be pushed through the same mechanism in order to gain the functionality I need.
Sure, I 'could just use asyncio', or somehow work out how to crowbar serial i/o into tkinters' runloop. But in the end, writing my own just made more sense, and more importantly: it works great. I can have serial i/o and UI acting independently, but coordinating through a single queue .. this works so well.
>I don't understand why every third party async Python library/framework feels the need to take over the default event loop instead of just building on top of it.
Because you don't always have what you need to get the crowbar in place, nor big enough leverage to make space for what you have to do, asynchronously, in the app.