This truth has come up quite a lot lately in conversations. It's not just the down payment though, it's like ok first I get together $120k for the down payment, then I'm on the hook for potentially double the already obscene amount the same place would cost to rent for the mortgage payment, then utils, then repairs, taxes (almost like one would need to be a landlord to afford it). Like, pass, ~$4k+ a month is more than I'd prefer to be on the hook for, and that's just a mediocre 1 bedroom condo. Doesn't help that there are no viable jobs or enough stability to ride out any volatility now that you've drained your savings on the mortgage.
Instead, a modest trip and a few gadgets is wildly less compromising and stressful.