As usual it comes down to money. There are dating websites/apps out there that do what you're describing, and more. Typically for upper middle class and above clientele.
But membership fees range from $200-500/month.
But membership fees range from $200-500/month.
As far as I know, none of my friends and acquaintances are on there super-apps. The closest I've heard of were matchmaking services that are free for women, but the men pay somewhere between 10 and 30 grand to get access, and it's a woman running the show, keeping track of everybody in the system.