It makes sense people would want to protect against the things they moved to the house to get away from.
I just bought a house a few years ago. There is 1 annoying house in ear shot of me and it’s a rental house that seems to get a new family each year, and no matter the family, it’s the house having parties, and slamming car doors at all hours of the night. It’s not every night, but it’s enough that I noticed. All the houses that are owner occupied aren’t like that.
Inviting more of that around me would make me want to move, and I’d rather not move. If you take away the reason a group of people moved to an area, they are going to find a new area. The previous area will slowly erode, and the new area will grow and thrive.. and then YIMBY people will want to come in and change the new area, and the cycle will start again.
I don’t see my house as a piggy bank. I see it as a means to stop rising rent costs, to stabilize my budget over time, and lower my fixed expenses in retirement. I’m not borrowing against it (the piggy bank), as I don’t want to risk the stable housing.
People don't say no to increased density because they are worried about increased overall housing supply affecting their house value.
They say no mostly because they like the place they are how it is, and they don't see any reason for it to change because the upside doesn't affect them.
And the rest of the time they are saying no due to a direct downside like having a new large building near them that wasn't there before.
I'm not saying that this attitude should be allowed, but let's be honest about the cause of it.
And then there’s construction. It takes a long time to build a thing in the place and not only will it change the place it will make the place much worse while long term construction happens. Nobody wants that.
The idea that an interloper should just be able to walk in and exploit that is ridiculous. Talk about getting in while the getting is good!
There’s plenty of shabby places with potential. Go there and unlock it. It’s futile to try and jump on the back of people that did that elsewhere by demanding they build affordable housing after they turned a place around.
I just hate the feeling of needing to put more of my life on hold because a world changing event disrupted my buying power and messed up the available housing stock. Truly the perfect storm of disappointment.