> And yet when people have a choice, they take their car.
That just false. Yes some people prefer cars, others don't. Overwhelming evidence shows that people most often prefer what the fastest thing is, and secondarily what the cheapest is.
I have plenty of money for a car, and I don't use one. So apparently I don't exist. Talking in absolutes makes you seem foolish.
The question you should be asking is, looking at society as a whole, whats and efficient and green way to meet the transportation needs of the population.
The reality in most cities less then 50% of population have cars, often much less. And that is after 50 years of pro-car policy. And literally every other possible benefit for cars.
What you should actually educate yourself on is that HUGE AMOUNT of pro car subsidies that actually exist in the real world. Of course if you make parking free, ram a highway right into the city center (burning existing communities down) and then make those people not even pay for the cost of that, then they will prefer the car.
If you design your roads in a why that makes it incredibly dangerous for anybody that is not in a car, guess what, more people take cars.
> And nobody ever asks why. They just stamp their feet and demand more trains.
There is actually lot of people that ask why. There is lots of research on this topic.
This research you clearly ignore because you have already made up your mind.
So maybe you should ask the 'why' question about your own position and study the history of it.