I thought this dev's attitude was fairly healthy. Try something, see it didn't work, start charging.
I thought this dev's attitude was fairly healthy. Try something, see it didn't work, start charging.
I don't think people should get any more cynical. That's why we have this problem. The solution isn't to become more like them.
But it is absolutely vital to understand that there are those types of cynical individuals out there. That's fine. Block them out as appropriate; You don't owe them anything, and they wouldn't reciprocate anyway. Keep an eye on them and take steps to protect yourself when they start to get too opportunistic/actively sabotaging/slanderous etc.
They resent you when you succeed - "They got lucky - I could have done that!"
You just need to do your own thing. You must find validation within yourself.