<cries in MacPorts>
I guess there's nothing stopping me from moving to Homebrew other than familiarity.
Other taps, like homebrew-ffmpeg, offer a ton of options.
The other issue I experienced with homebrew around that time were related to having different versions of openssl installed because I had some old codebase I had to run (and for performance reasons didn't want to use docker). But that's definitely a edge case.
I still use MacPorts for that reason and it is easy enough to create a local portfile for whatever isn't in Macports.
I find this to be the easy way to manage networked development computers.