It was a busy time in my life but was just a few years while I was young. In the end I feel like I had more personal time back then compared to now with multiple children.
I worked enough I rented a whole apartment with my now wife, and we both graduated with about 3K in loans each. Prices are different at a Canadian college than an American university though.
I rode my bike to work and school.
It was busy but I never felt overwhelmed. Maybe I was too focused on getting it done, I’m not sure.
I agree that having a family is way worse in the personal time sense. Kids are a huge emotional/energy suck too. Way different than being busy at work.
I was a STEM major, did well at a reasonable school, and the only time I felt like I had way the hell more homework than I could get through was at a community college when I signed up for a Literature course and a Political Science course the same summer.
-56 hours sleep
-15 hours classroom time
-45 hours study time
-7 hours exercise
= 45 hours remaining, or 6.5 hours per day
We are rapidly approaching time deficit even assuming perfect discipline.