Reality is stranger than fiction!!
There is no universal time T in space time. Time is relative to the observer.
I suggest reading https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Minkowski_space for the mathematics.
If you're in a car on the highway, an observer standing still outside the car sees you moving at 50mph, but an observer inside the car with you, sees you not moving at all, but the world rushing past at 50mph. These are two different reference frames, and the second one is called a rest frame - any object can be considered to have a rest frame of reference where it isn't moving at all. Any object that is, which has mass.
Massless objects are always observed to be moving at the speed of light by any observer in any frame of reference. This is one of the most mind-bending parts of relativity, but it ultimately connects to the part of special relativity where speed affects time - the faster you go, the slower your clock runs compared to things moving slower than you, and the closer you get to the speed of light, the closer your clock gets to zero. Massless particles only travel at the speed of light, and thus have no clock, therefore they experience no time.
I hope I got that right, but even if I did, I still don't feel like I actually understand it at all!
A photon travels between an electron that emits it and an electron that absorbs it. These two electrons must agree on the photon transfer beforehand. This has some strange implications:
- When you see a star at night, it's because photons from the distant star hit your eyes.
- These photons started traveling billions of years ago, when neither you nor your eyes existed yet.
- Yet the electrons in your eyes and the electrons in the star (which may no longer even exist) must have agreed to transfer these photons.
- From the photon's perspective, it traveled instantaneously from the star to your eye; it traveled through billions of years of time!
This doesn’t mean there’s some cross time agreement between particles mediated by the photon because the reference frame of those particles are different than the photons and are necessarily slower than the speed of light.