I have to say that HR describing the sit-in as violating their policy on retaliation is kind of darkly hilarious. Not sure I’d want to have those people in charge of actual retaliation cases if they’re this confused…
Defacing property is not part of a sit-in.
If HR/PR lied about defacing property it would open them up to a defamation lawsuit. The entire purpose of HR is to protect the company from lawsuits which is why they don't usually make up fake reasons for firing people. They just won't give specifics instead of defaming a person publicly.
"Defacing property" doesn't have as strict a definition as you think it does, as an example: https://codelibrary.amlegal.com/codes/morrisonco/latest/morr... <- Writing on a whiteboard wall would qualify under that definition even if it's not what you think it is.
The fact that it comes from Google directly should make you more suspicious not less.