Can you elaborate more on the falling apart? I can see pgvector being intimidating for users with no experience standing up a DB, but I don't see how Postgres or pgvector would fall apart. Note, my reason for asking is I'm planning on going all in with Postgres, so pgvector makes sense for me.

What is "more vectors"? How many are we talking about? We've been using pgvector in production for more than 1 year without any issues. We dont have a ton of vectors, less than 100,000, and we filter queries by other fields so our total per cosine function is probably more like max of 5000. Performance is fine and no issues.

Take a look at https://github.com/tembo-io/pg_vectorize. It makes it a lot easier to get started. It runs on pgvector, but as a user, its completely abstracted from you. It also provides you with a way to auto-update embeddings as you add new data or update existing source data.

on the other hand, if you have postgres already, it may be easier to add pgvector than to add another dependency to your stack (especially if you are using something like supabase)

another benefit is that you can easily filter your embeddings by other field, so everything is kept in one place and could help with perfomance

it's a good place to start in those cases and if it is successful and you need extreme performance you can always move to other specialized tools like qdrant, pinecone or weaviate which were purpose-built for vectors