I grew up lower middle class, and I didn't have it easy. I have no idea who my birth parents were. I had an abusive father. I was bullied and beaten relentlessly by the other children that didn't like on-the-spectrum kids. I didn't party like those that abused me, I withdrew into myself and turned that into hard work.
So when I see people [1] wanting me to pay for their choices, I feel used. When I see people demanding way more than I take for myself. It's as if the people that caused my problems are now trying to ride on my back.
Does that help lend perspective for how some people feel about calls to increase taxes to pay for this?
This doesn't mean that I'm unkind, uncaring, or unsympathetic. I just don't think US healthcare or how it is utilized is efficient, and I don't think armchair posturing or giving money to bureaucrats, administrators, or anyone without skin in the game will make it better.
edit: I removed the analogy and replaced it with a personal anecdote.
[1] The comments and downvotes here are probably from wealthy / well-off people on HN