It's not an LLM provider problem. It's an Anthropic/Google culture problem. OpenAI would very likely not have any problems with a request like that, but Claude has struggled with an absurdly misaligned sense of ethics from the start.
Note that Google is a big investor into Anthropic, and Anthropic was created because a bunch of OpenAI people thought OpenAI wasn't being woke enough and quit as a consequence. So it's not a surprise that it's a lot more extremist than other model vendors.
That's one reason why Aider doesn't recommend you use it, even though in some ways it's slightly better at coding. Claude Opus will routinely refuse ordinary coding requests due to its misalignment, whereas GPT-4 will not. That better reliability more than makes up for any difference in skill or speed.