The SXM2 interface is actually publicly documented! There is an open compute spec for a 8-way baseboard. You can find the pinouts there.
But maybe there was more I missed. I'll take another look.
I think this is literally the impetus for their OAM spec which makes the pinout open and shareable. Up until that, they had to keep the actual designs of the baseboards out of the public due to that part being still controlled Nvidia IP.
If you're willing to do the testing and post the pin out, I'll send it your way.
Would like to have it sent back when you're finished though, and I'd pay shipping both ways.
I do have the ground pins mapped out and could share that which should save some time.