> We really need SO-DIMM slots on the RTX series (or AMD/Intel equivalent) so that we can expand the RAM as we need it to. Is there a technical problem to it?

I imagine it would incur a non trivial latency and cost penalty. The memory modules are placed pretty close to the compute die right now. Cooling would also have to change (the memory modules produce a lot of heat).

But there is also no reason for any of the GPU manufacturers to do this. A skew with twice as much memory can go for a lot more than the difference in memory cost alone