On a related anecdotal note, one of the many reasons my peers aren’t changing their names when they get married is because it’s a huge administrative pain to track down every database you touch and get them to change things.
I always think of the ever relevant “Falsehoods Programmers Believe about Names” [1]
[1] https://www.kalzumeus.com/2010/06/17/falsehoods-programmers-...