My rough calculus points that the amount of force of this collision is on par with a large scale natural disaster. Everyone being surprised at the bridge collapsing needs to reconcile with the amount of force that struck the bridge - it is a truly significant amount of Newtons that hit the bridge. More than a train going from full speed to a full stop. Unbelievable amount of force.
I am also a bit surprised at how many people don't grasp this or grasp engineering, magnitude of forces and design principles.