The "Reitoff principle": Why you should add "nothing" to your work-life schedule
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We'd live together on weekends, but not the weekdays. So I'd work on problems all week, and then go visit her, bringing no computer or anything like that.
I always came up with a bunch of solutions to hard problems I'd been working on during those weekends away from the keyboard. They'd just appear in my head one by one, throughout the weekend. All of my most inspired ideas came out of that period. It's as though working activley on a problem spawns a bunch of threads that, without serious time away from the problem, continuously get interrupted and never resolve.
I eventually settled on a shortcut on my phone's home screen that opened up an email to my work email. So all I had to do was press that shortcut, write the note and send it. Then come Monday I would have a couple notes from my self waiting in my inbox.
In general I make a habit of writing down anything I think I should do. It's easy to think you'll remember, but those types of thoughts are extremely fleeting, and you almost never remember then when it's time to get to work. Such note-taking is pretty much the backlog for my life and a principal key to getting a lot of shit done.
My method in college ended up being explicit balance. Study, read, ingest as much knowledge on the topic as I could until I felt I was at either the point of diminishing returns or having sufficiently covered the subject, taking some, but not copious notes. Then just start doing idle things, specifically letting the "background processing" happen in my brain, things like running/hiking, going to dinner, etc. Mostly just waiting for the ideas to form and appear. At that point, I just started rapidly scribbling draft shards, in whatever order the ideas appeared. When that slowed down, it was time to wrangle the shards into a properly organized paper, which usually also included finding a smaller number of new connections among the shards.
The whole key was first feeding selected info in, then allowing — and trusting — my unconscious brain the space to work on it.
Reading actual books or other longform documents is usually pretty fertile/generative. Watching youtube or a movie or listening to a podcast doesn't do the trick. Writing and editing are both also pretty good.
Walks are good, but biking/running/swimming don't seem to be.
Programming can be good in the sense that it regularly reveals missing tools/libraries, but I don't find the work itself all that generative.
As well as breaking productivity of the past into really small steps.
Back when we were "just" best friends, I'd get offended that my fiance would clean her apartment when casual acquaintances would come over, but would never bother to clean up for me. She finally explained the above to me..
My wife and I invite people over often because it helps us keep the house clean and benefits us overall :).
I agree with the sentiment of this quote though.
By scrolling low signal/noise content we block ourselves from this fenomena.
I am, however, prone to anxiety. When things start to become uncertain and I get anxious, I find it's much better for me to take the extra hours head-on and work however much is needed to dig myself out - 30,40, 50, or 60. Otherwise both work and rest become really low-quality as I can never truly procrastinate away from worry. Focused work is the only way through.
Which is one reason why I try to avoid work where there are many emergencies and sudden operational problems. It throws me off my game completely.
Edit: apologies for the typos, not used to posting from my phone :)
What is meant by this?
At one point he just told me to think of stuff that would help the team and do it; he then didn't really talk to me again for 2 years. For the first few months I was feeling lazy. I didn't really know wheat to do and felt like I was sitting around a lot. However, by the end of the first year I had more projects than I could handle. Eventually a whole team of 10 people was formed around me to help with all the stuff.
Current management wants to overload everyone with more work than they can handle, after they read the cliff notes about OKRs. Productivity has gone down, the solutions are worse, and chaos is the new normal. I think some time for everyone to take a step back, assess where we're at, and put some practical plans in place on how to move forward, would do the whole organization a lot of good.
Imagine explaining all of this to a person asking you why you're unavailable on a Sunday. It's much easier to just say "my god says so". Depending on the person, it also often gives much higher chances of them respecting your way of life.
I embrace the Christian concept of the seventh day of the week free from work, having arrived here in a completely non-religious way. It's one of the things that made me convinced that there is some value in religion, despite all the corruption and misguided dogmatism on the surface.
Jewish idea at its root.
I'm getting the same effect with ... alcohol. Took me a while to realize it and it's not easy (winnings outweigh the losses but it's hard - hangovers that is). But so many times it happened that I got stuck trying with no solution to my ongoing problem (finding algorithms to make money in finance) and I tried walking, taking a break etc. Still nothing. Then in frustration, went on an alcoholic binge and out of the physical pain and mental void of the hangover it came out: a new approach that just occurred to me.
So in addition to Reitoff principle, I'm adding here "Michael's lemma" :) "When adding nothing still doesn't work, try 'filling the void'".
Exactly! Didn't know the comic strip but it's right on! :)
I get a lot of my best work done when I travel. I spend days holding my bicycle or motorcycle handlebars, free to think but unable to act. All I get are short breaks with pen and paper. By the time I wrap up my vacation I'm eager
This is when I come up with my best ideas. This is when I fire a few emails that turn into lucrative deals. This is when I get to rethink my general position, and make life-altering changes.
I've tried to introduce those breaks in my normal life too. The morning coffee on the balcony, regular walks, cafe hopping. Anything that introduces time to think is good in my book.
Hammock Driven Development:
Now I am starting to let go -- of evenings, weeknd days, and even some work days. The world turns all the same even when I fail to send that email before "end-of-day" (12 midnight)
A programmer who's busy at the computer is goofing off.
Solvers in the night
Exchanging glances
Wondering in the night
What were the chances
We'd be solving it
Before the night was through
(anachronistic, but) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnPy7DmMHgQ&t=140Very much not doing nothing, just not doing financially productive work.
It does bring up the point that the long history shows us that in this case the spirit of the law is more important than the letter of the law because people push the boundaries of the rules.