Overall, agreed. Some nuance:
> […] but not an actually useful park beyond sitting with a book or a smoke perhaps
Yes, and grass to play improvised football or things like it.
> chock full of amenities europeans would be lucky to have
Not really, because European social life is not organized-activity-oriented. At least nowhere near my perception of American life (8y in CA).
In Europe, you meet first (let’s hang out, meet at a cafe, in the park) and then roam around and maybe do something spontaneous. In many cases, this involves mixed ages (kids playing, grandparents etc).
> Bathrooms
Yes. To be fair, I think it depends on how urban it is. In bigger parks like Golden Gate Park SF, the homeless don’t bother to go that far. If you have bathrooms near urban centers they tend to get misused and scare away regular folks anyways.
> To act like the greenspace is not available or unusuable doesn't speak to what is actually there for use today.
The green space in the US wins overall (again based on mostly CA), if you commit to the car ride to get there. In fact, if you count the national/state parks it might be best in the world.
In terms of green space integrated into urban life, I would say Europe is way better. In the US you can’t easily “integrate” green space that way into car-centric urban sprawl, because everything is already compartmentalized and divided and driving distance afar from other parts.