"Never listen to people who try to make beginners feel like losers"
Zing. A great litmus test that's simple and has results too.
Too many programming communities, including the most popular web frameworks that are the be all and end all to everything have elements of this.
It's not something to be proud of to feel better about yourself by putting others down, telling others what they do, or how they do it, or who they ultimately are isn't as capable.