Nope - I'm in a town of <15k people. The nearest city of the size of Birmingham or Atlanta is 2.5 hours away from me.
I've tried to build a local network, but haven't had much success yet.
I've had a similar problem in Rhode Island.
It seems like meaningful meetups are just hard when you don't live near a large community of software developers with similar interests.
I imagine remote work exacerbates this. I.e., more of us live away from those population centers.