I feel this. I got the "you look older than your profile pic" comment during an interview last year. That one was fun. Dude wanted to know if I could even code anymore.
Pretty obvious what that was about.
So far for me working with young people has been lot of fun and learning on both sides.
I'm not sure what if means by "certain" applicants and employees, but my guess would be jobs where it's relevant, like physical labor, are excluded.
Retainers start at around $10k.
You disproving their assumption by showing you can code will only elicit extreme disgust from them.