I don't want to live next to a huge building, so I selected a town where that was not allowed. So don't tell me changing this is a win win for me. It isn't.
Are you really that important?
This whole thread is kind of silly, in that high-density apartments aren't what's going to get built on SFZ blocks in cities and inner-ring suburbs; 3-flats are.
A NIMBY straight-up told you that their motivations are about lifestyle and not money and your response is "I don't care about your preferences".